Tuesday, 6 March 2018

The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator

I just want to share!

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Every year, I take this test because I've become obsessed with it. Every year, I always come out as an INTJ with my introversion being exponentially over my extraversion by 86%. I shall not talk about myself and my personality type further. But the truth is, I like reading people. I have made myself believed and boasted about the fact that I can tell people's personalities and their motives just by observing. I always end up saying, "I knew I was right about him/her!"

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So, it is a funny little thing I do. If you're a friend or anyone I'm close to, I am sure to make you take this test because I'm a Curious George. That's why it is impossible not to get my husband to take this test, too! I've always wanted him to take this test but he would always shun the idea because he feels lazy. So last night in bed, before we gave in to slumber, he and I did it together. It was a fun activity. we were able to compare ourselves and saw how different we were on most items. We had a really good laugh!

The result, my husband is apparently an ISFJ. Reading the descriptions, I was just about to tear up because I always thought he was an Extravert. Apparently, he is actually just as introvert as I am. ISFJs are considered the most extraverted introverts. They're not actually extraverts but they mimic the actions of a person that are somewhat socially acceptable. But they drain from social gatherings just as much as most introverts do. and my husband, being 46% Extravert and 54% Introvert, is leaning towards the ambivert side (both an extravert and introvert given certain situations).

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I was touched because it is true about him, he is so generous to the point where people get to take advantage of his goodness. It made me want to cry and kiss the hub on the cheek because he is in fact really really giving. It also surprised me because I've always thought my husband is such a sensible person who sympathizes with other people so much that I could only ever try to become. 

This test actually reaffirms those observations although they're not hard to notice if you know my husband personally. And finding out that he is introvert too when all the while I thought he was an extravert because of his tons of friends, it touched my heart that last night I learned something new about him.

AND I am glad I learned something new THROUGH my husband--that just because one has a lot of friends does not mean they are extravert. Jei is just so helpful, and not just helping haphazardly but helping to perfection that he easily earns the trust and loyalty of many people. That's why people like him a lot. And those who don't are the ones who are just downright crazy. because how can't they not?

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I'm not idolizing my husband, I just want to honor him because we are celebrating our second anniversary as a couple and our first church anniversary as husband and wife on Sunday. As you know, we had our church wedding on our anniversary date.

For the past 2 years of being together, my fears of being in a relationship have been totally dissolved. I consider it a miracle that God allowed us to find each other in this chaotic world. I mean how could two opposite people be so compatible? The only answer is simple. It must come from a mutual decision that both want to commit to stay loyal to each other no matter what. The truth is, there's no such thing as compatibility and this I believe truly. Two people must be willing to love not blindly but with no holds barred.

Each time I look at him I feel so sure that I wouldn't be able to legitimately call myself a wife and a partner the way I do now if I hadn't met him. It is because I wouldn't have bought the idea of wanting to be in a long-term relationship if I wasn't convinced by the goodness of my husband that it's all worth the shot.

So to my dear loving husband, Happy Happy Anniversary!!! May you and I continue to thrive together in this world with God on our side. When I thought we were so different, I loved you so much already! But thank God, I know now we're not so different after all!

I love you so so very very much! :D God bless you always!


 ❤






Tuesday, 2 May 2017

Travel Diary: Bohol 2017

As I've mentioned in my previous post, my hub and I really wanted to get married in Bohol. Due to my sister giving birth a few months before our wedding, we weren't permitted to travel too far. Her baby was still too small to travel by plane so we had our wedding in Batangas instead. For consolation, my hub told me that he would just take me to Bohol after the wedding.

Fast forward to after the wedding, it really hadn't crossed our minds to plan our honeymoon. Us, traveling to Bohol was unplanned. It was actually a gift from my husband's cousin Jeremy who insisted on treating us to a lovely holiday.

When I would recall that conversation I had with my husband, I really can't help but see God in the whole picture. He really does make things up for us when our desires don't go as planned.

When it finally hit me, I became so keen to go. It was actually my first time to see Bohol for all its worth! I'm sure my husband was as well. Sure, it wasn't his first time in Bohol but it was probably our first time to travel that far together. So, it is safe to say that we both had a really good time in our own ways! :)

We decided to spend four days there because, according to my "tour guide", three days wouldn't be good enough for him take me around to interesting places.

Day 1: We arrived at the Tagbilaran airport just in time. Airport transfers were free, thanks to our chosen resort--Amorita Beach Resort. It's a private van ride that took around 45 mins. from the airport to our destination.

As soon as we arrived at the gates of the resort, I was stunned. I fell in love with the place right away. It reminded me of Chiang Mai, only it was in Bohol. It felt like a sanctuary hidden atop the unraveled tourist-alluring Alona Beach--which it was.

This first pool of the resort showcases the majestic view of the Alona Beach from a cliff.
Whilst my husband and I were checking in, I was distracted by the architecture of this luxury boutique resort. I was easily lost in wonder. There's something about it that reminded me of Thailand. I love trying out different types of accommodations, but sanctuary resorts really have a special place in my heart.

refreshing welcome drinks! Thanks, Amorita. :)
I am not an artist or designer by profession, but I'm so artistically driven. Though I'm not really a professional, I guess it's easy to claim by an untrained eye that Amorita's architectural design is something that meets the old and the new. It is in places like this where I am simply relieved to see how human's cultivating hands could create something that complements and enhances nature; not destroy it.

View from the cliff.
In a way, it gives us a certain degree of comfort to be in a place where we could enjoy luxury and nature without the latter being compromised.

A photo-op at the second pool. :D
Our first day in Bohol was just about settling down and enjoying the resort. So, our plan was to freshen up as quickly as we could and head directly to the Saffron Restaurant to have our first sumptuous meal!

                            The resort boasts of their delicious modern take on classic local dishes that we were so dying to try. We understood that we had four days to go so we had enough time to have a go at most of the items on their menu. So, for starters, we ordered their Sisig Quesadilla and Crispy Pork Sinigang. It's basically like Crispy Pata or Lechon Kawali with Sinigang soup. :)



After our small feast, we headed back to our suite and to take a nap. Then, we had the rest of the day to enjoy the rest of the resort as much as we wanted.

Our suite had a lovely decor, too! :)
        

Everything in our suite had a personal touch to it. Every day, we would receive a note from the manager who wrote such wonderful greetings for us! :)
Every day, they replenish these organic items in our minibar. :) I especially loved the Cassava Chips, I got hooked
As soon as we had changed our outfits, we went around the resort to explore reaching as far as Alona Beach which was around 25 steps from the cliff. :)



Then, it was definitely pool time the rest of the day! 


weeee!
The insect repellent jar has an endless pit inside. :)

A wider angle :)
At the second pool is where the Saffron restaurant is. Nothing beats having resort food with a fantastic view!

The pool at night

Day 2:
Our second day in Bohol was probably the most tiring of all. Apparently, my husband hired a private van and driver. He talked to him about his grand plan for the day. The itinerary was well played out! The night before that, he was already briefing me to have as much sleep and then food at breakfast because it was going to be a looong day!

Speaking of food, of course, we started our day at the resort's Saffron restaurant for our complimentary breakfast. I really love dining at this restaurant. Great food, but I really have to charge it to the ambiance.

a nice touch to the interior: they allocated a special space to hold the spread in. How creative!
Breakfast dates are the best!


Since we had already loaded up on food, we were now ready to hop on our rented van and headed to the first stop on our itinerary: the butterfly farm. :) We had a ton of photos taken from this place, but I only like to share a few--well, just because we looked like idiots from all the poses the tour guide asked us to do. Also, this place has a lot of butterflies. They were so magical, but we weren't able to catch them on cam. I guess these are just one of the many instances on this trip that we had to leave to our memories to remember them by.


How amazing are those cocoons? it was probably my first time to see cocoons out of a Science book. 
Photo op. :)
my hub's way of learning is by touching. haha he's into it. I think that isn't the issue, just the fact that he CAN touch creepy crawlies... I'll stop there. :))
On the way to the Butterfly Farm was actually the Bilar Manmade Forest--the beautiful mahogany forest that was planted by boy scouts about 50 years ago as a part of reforestation efforts. 

It was too magical and mystical altogether. I don't recall hearing birds chirping here and there, actually.



the two-kilometer stretch of Mahogany trees created a natural canopy that warms the coldest of hearts. the patches of sunlight were truly heartwarming. The only place where silence was not deafening.

Second stop: Chocolate Hills. Getting there took roughly 40 mins from the butterfly farm. It was so hot when we got there, so I had to protect myself as much as I could with coverups. I guess I'm not the same old me who didn't care about the sun at all. I'm no longer the sunkissed carefree girl like I used to be. I know it could be unbearable to look at the photos but here they are!

In order to see everything, we had to find a higher ground--where else, but on one  of the thousands of chocolate hills with man-made steps that total to about 214, if my memory serves me right. That it was tiring is actually an understatement.




  
you see, the climb was worth it.
I've seen photos of the Chocolate Hills before, both professional and amateur, but nothing compares to seeing it all for myself. It was breathtaking. My husband couldn't even contain his amazement that he praised God for the beauty of His works, His creation. My husband said, "how great is our God. How did He put all these around here. Only He can do this." Yes, God's fingerprints are everywhere!

The view at the top. It was too high, I thought I was going to be sick from my fear of heights.
It was truly quite a sight. :) In fact, I think Chocolate Hills is underrated. 
Next stop: A small zoo full of birds, and then snakes.








This one is obviously preserved. They did so because it was apparently the biggest in their zoo. This snake had a name, I just didn't bother remembering (and a legendary story, too). 
I didn't really enjoy this place, but my husband, who tries to see the best out of anything, actually tried to poke fun at me by actually encouraging me to face my fears. Yes, he kept touching the live snakes and asking me to touch this dead one and the other living ones. Err. I couldn't, obviously. haha

Our next stop was Tarsiers.

A short disclaimer: we had a friend over there who owned a couple of it, so he let us see them for ourselves. They are strictly prohibited so we decided not to go to the Sanctuary. I'll show just a few of the photos we have of it.



Next stop was at the Loboc Eco Adventure Park where we went for a Cable Car ride. It was too majestic. From the top, we were able to see Loboc River for all its worth.  It was too beautiful, I forgot I had fear of heights!


Hubby
The view up here was too good to be true!
Greenery at its finest!
Next stop was lunch at Loboc River. It was already 1:30pm around this time and we were already hungry we could eat an entire cow if you know what I mean. I heard a lot of things about Loboc River, but my hunger did not prepare me for the best that was to come. I was so happy.

The moment we were asked to enter the vicinity of the Loboc River offices, we were guided to the boat we were supposed to be on. It was a floating buffet restaurant that was going to tour us around the River.
The spread

Busog smiles. :)

The river ride had a few stops where we were serenaded by a choir of energetic locals.
At the end of it. :)
Our final stop for the day was the Bohol Bee Farm. It's an organic farm where they now have their own resort, but previously it's just a restaurant that serves dishes made out of safe organic ingredients--mostly from their own garden! We also shopped for some pasalubong there. Of course, we bought a couple bottles of Wild and Organic Honey and a few other things. :)

I love artsy doors. :)
Organic Ice Cream!


The restaurant overlooking the sea. :)
The shop.
What we ate? Why, I thought you'd never ask! haha.






Fresh drinks!

Before heading back to the resort, my husband and I asked the driver to take us to the market so we could buy more pasalubong. This time, we intended to buy daing for everyone back home!




This cute sweet girl was everything but camera shy. 

Finally, we were going back home. When we got back to the resort, it was probably around 4pm. We just freshened up a bit and headed straight to the pool. :)



Day 3: Off to the Sea.

Our itinerary on our third day in Bohol was again my husband's doing. We had planned to wake up at 5:30am, but we ended up waking up at 6am. By 6:30am, we were already at the foot of the cliff, about to hop on the boat to go see some Dolphins!

Out here, from a distance, we were able to spot a group of dolphins who were swimming around to have their first meal of the day. :) Oh, the feeling was hard to explain.
After spending about 30 mins watching the dolphins, we were finally ready to go to Balicasag Reef. There we snorkeled for two hours. I am afraid of sea creatures. I only like to look at saltwater aquariums and appreciate everything that way, but what I experienced at Balicasag was just immensely beautiful and wonderful it's hard to recount everything apart from the fact that the reef was just full of life and color. I recommend it to everyone out there who needs therapy from depression hahaha 
  After Balicasag, we were invited to spot tortoises. We were told that there are just too many of them, but sometimes they do tend to hide, because why shouldn't they? We could only hope to see at least a couple of them, but we were just blessed with one. There's no way to take a snap of it. Again, we left it to our memory to remember how graceful this creature was. After another 5 minutes there, we had all given up and responded to our hunger. We went back to the beach and had our lunch there.

These picnic boxes were packed by Amorita for us. Since, we had to leave early that morning, we couldn't have our brekky at the resort. So we asked them to pack us at least sandwiches for the journey, instead they gave us this. EVEN BETTER than having another breakfast at the resort. Just for the experience. 
It was downright creative. So native yet innovative. too cool for my life.

It kept the food fresh and warm, would you believe? and the smell of the woven leaves just brought up another notch of a happy feel to the whole experience.
 After lunch, we were off to the picturesque Virgin Island Sandbar in Panglao.


We stayed here for about 30 mins and swam for a little bit. It was too hot for the Queen Bee. hihihi


After Sandbar, we decided it was time to go back to the resort. What we did there was sleep until 4pm. We were too knocked out and couldn't be bothered for the time being. When we woke up, we just spent the entire time at the pool ready to have a go with the rest of the resort food we haven't tried yet.

my favorite Turon Ala Mode. I like Turon a lot. I like Ice Cream a lot. Turon and Ice Cream together, why not?!
I like Churros, too, by the way! haha 
Resort food is love. :D
I haven't really mentioned that for dinners, we would go out to Alona Beach to look for restaurants. On the first night, we had grilled seafood at ISIS Bungalow. Quite pricey but worth it. On the second night, we went out on the main road to have Korean (couldn't help it). On the third night, we went to Alona because the Mediterranean restaurant there had been calling our attention since day 1. So, on the third night, we just couldn't resist it anymore.

It was underrated! It was a great meal to end a great day.
After dinner, the boys went for a drink while I went to the spa at Amorita.

Bar at the foot of Amorita.

Day 4: Last Day

The next day was our final day in Bohol We just decided to, of course, enjoy the resort. We had our usual breakfast at the Saffron restaurant, went for a swim, and finally packed up.
Relaxing spot
Kilig with my hubby.



The whole trip to Bohol allows me to conclude that it's a province that's full of luster and life.There are just too much to experience, too many things to see and find that our time was not enough. I've already decided not to repeat going back to a place I've been before, but I guess if there are so many things I haven't seen in that place yet, then I'd have good enough reasons to return... like Oslob, perhaps? :)